In the past month, I've adopted out both of my two foster dogs. Both of them went to great, loving homes. Both dogs are loving their new homes. Both families were denied from adopting pets by multiple other organizations prior to us adopting to them.
The idea of not being 'overly selective" for homes for adoptable pets may be the most important, and yet the most controversial (likely because it is the least well understood) part of the no kill equation. The animal rescue community MUST quit loving their adoptables to death.
When many in the establishment hear about limiting barriers to adoption, the first reactions inevitably seems to be that No Kill wants to send pets into homes where they will not be cared for, will live their lives on chains, or will lead to some form of miserable death. That, of course, is completely untrue and there is data that supports this. But its still what some people will assume...
The no kill idea is actually to remove artificial barriers to adoption. Somehow over the years many rescue groups (I find this to be most common with breed-specific rescue groups, although it is not uncommon within all-breed rescues) have put up all kinds of artificial barriers to adoption. Here are just a few I've run across fairly recently:
1) Refusal to adopt most (or all) of their adoptable dogs to homes without fenced yards. Even if someone intends to walk their dog 3x a day, the rescue still maintains this policy. It's important to note that Kansas City, like many cities, is an urban community where many people live in condos and their dogs have great lives going on multiple walks per day -- or many people live in suburban neighborhoods where fencing isn't even allowed. While certainly there are some dogs in a program that would be best suited to have fenced yards, most would be perfectly happy sleeping on the couch indoors with their owner and then going for several walks a day.
2) Refusal to adopt dogs into homes with dogs of the same gender -- even though most of the rescue foster homes have 3 or more dogs in their homes (which guarantees same gender placements) and it works out just fine.
3) Refusing to adopt to unmarried couples, or young singles who live in apartments. Often these people are weeded out by fencing requirements. But even groups without the fencing requirement often refuse to adopt to apartment dwellers, or young couples, because they fear a breakup, or a move to a new apartment that doesn't allow dogs, will cause the dog to come back into the shelter/rescue. While statistically, it is more likely to happen in these instances, the reality is that most of these dogs remain in their homes forever
4) Denying adoption to someone who has another dog, that is unaltered. Note, there is no way that the dog you adopt to them (which is altered) will be part of a birthing equation.
5) Denying people from adopting because they tend to have the dog as an outside "farm dog". Never mind the warm, straw-filled barn, or garage to sleep in. Or the heated water bowl. Or the exercise and stimulation of never ending farm chores.
6) Not adopting out black cats around Halloween, or any pets around Christmas, also fall under these artificial barriers.
Somehow we've forgotten just how adaptable dogs are to our lives (and how lovingly willing they are to adjust their lifestyle to fit ours). It was only a few decades ago that most dogs lived outside. This was definitely unsuitable for city living because dogs often got hit by cars, but was perfectly great for dogs in rural areas who were farm dogs following their masters around fields. Over time, we gradually brought dogs into our homes -- to which dogs adapted -- and then, started confining them to small kennels during the day. And again, the dogs adapted.
Yet, for some reason, we don't think dogs can adapt to even the slightest variation in lifestyle from our idealic notion of what it should be. Even though what is ideal for the DOG may vary dramatically based on the dog's personality traits.
I'm sure, there are some who have read this far, and with steam coming out of their ears, will profess that they do some (or all) of these things because they CARE about these pets. Unfortunately, they haven't taken the consequences of their denying adoptions to the next logical question:
What happens to these adopters that your organization is denying for adoption?
We have to realize that in denying a family for adoption, for whatever reason, does not ensure that they never get a pet. It just ensures that they don't adopt a pet. So, after a couple of times getting declined for adoption, the hopeful family goes to a breeder, and buys a dog, because the rescue community is too hard to work with and has continued to deny them the opportunity to own a pet.
So they have a pet, but they left our adoptable pet in the shelter. And then, the rescue community makes the claim that these irresponsible people are causing THEM to have to kill animals in the shelter because there just aren't enough good homes.
But the reality is these rescue groups loved the animals to death. There are more than enough "good enough" homes. Instead of denying these homes and sending them elsewhere for a pet, it is important that we take every opportunity to, through a little education and follow up, make them into good homes instead of just sending the adopter away and leaving the animal homeless out of 'love" for the animal.
Over the past month, I've been hearing an ad campaign from the Ad Council and an organization call Adopt US Kids. The campaign (you can check out some of the work here), has a tag line of "you don't have to be perfect, to be a perfect parent". I love the campaign, but also find it fascinating that they are encouraging "less than perfect" people to adopt CHILDREN, and yet many in the animal welfare community find it almost offensive that we would adopt a dog into a home without a fence. I think a lot of rescue organizations could benefit from the idea of "you don't have to be perfect to be a perfect pet parent".
There is more than one type of good home. And that of the nearly 70 million US households that own pets, the vast majority of them are either already very good homes, or could be very good homes with a little help. And denying adopters doesn't prevent these homes from owning pets, it just prevents them from adopting a pet. Sure, there will always be cases in which you just can't responsibly put a pet in a particular home...but this should be a very rare exception.
As Winograd writes in his very good blog post "Good Homes Need not Apply"
"I have long been a proponent of adoption screening because I, too, want animals to get good homes. But truth be told, in shelters where animals are being killed by the thousands, I’d rather they do “open adoptions” (little to no screening) because I trust the general public far more than those who run many animal control shelters—those who have become complacent about killing and willfully refuse to implement common-sense lifesaving alternatives."
And even if your organization is not facilitating in the killing, if the organization that is doing it relies on your organization to help transfer/pull animals, you are doing your part to ensure the practice continues.
Over the past 2 years, I've met many people who have been denied adopting from shelters -- for wanting to have a "farm dog", for occassionally breeding great hunting dogs but wanted to adopt a companion dog, for not giving their elderly, indoor dog heartworm treatment even though they were following the advice of their veterinarian, for not having a fence, for living in an apartment, for being too young, too old, having a young child and for having a good job that the rescue organization thought would be 'too time consuming" for her to raise a pet.
It's foolishness. And it is leading to us killing animals in the shelter.
For more:
Good Homes Need Not Apply - -Winograd
No Kill Conference Wrap UP #1 -- YesBiscuit!
My husband and I quit fostering because of this exact issue. We would meet what we thought were wonderful folks at adoption events, only to see their applications declined for one of the issues you mention here. I still talk to people that tell me the same sad tale of being rudely rejected by various rescue orgs. It's very frustrating and completely counter productive.
I understand the groups want the 'Perfect' families for their adoptables, but I'm a believer in not letting the PERFECT be the ENEMY of the GOOD.
Posted by: Alana | August 08, 2011 at 10:51 AM
Very good read and very true. Fortunately we were able to adopt our Terrier mix with little to no problems at all and we lived in an apartment. However we went back to the same shelter 2 years later to adopt a Lab/hound mix and they wouldn't even talk to us. Their reasoning was this is an active type of dog and he needs a fenced in yard. "Okay you adopted us an extremely active type of dog two years ago and we didn't have a yard then". Didn't matter, basically their shelter had become more organized and they had more specific qualifications as far as adopters go. Such as must have a fenced in yard to adopt any of their dogs, they won't adopt to homes with children under 6, and all pets in the home must be spayed/neutered, on heartworm preventative, and flea/tick meds.
A friend of mine went to adopt a male border collie mix recently and he has a male french bulldog that the vet advised against neutering due to health reasons he won't survive the surgery. The vet will absolutely not neuter this dog. The shelter turned him down flat. They said that they cannot adopt to a home that has an unaltered dog.
Do I think its good that shelters have guidelines to make sure the dogs go to a good home? Yes. Do I think they should be anything more than guidelines? No. Good homes come in all shapes and sizes. And I feel they are too picky at times and that just causes a major overflow problem. As a shelter volunteer I see it all the time.
Its a sad reality. I do plan to adopt my next dog, however I have been tempted to just find a reputable breeder and get a well bred purebred. Its less of a headache. However my heart belongs to the homeless dogs.
Posted by: Marie | August 08, 2011 at 12:05 PM
I own my home, have a fenced yard, am a stay at home mom with a working husband and have 3 kids who are all over 6 years old.
I was turned down by the local rescues because of my kids ages. Never mind that I know an energetic and untrained dog may knock a kid over and am ok with this. Kids fall down, dogs learn. It's not an issue.
Then I went to rescues that wanted me to sign contracts stating they have the right to "inspect the home with little or no notice for the lifetime of the pet" or that, by contract, list what brands of food I am allowed to feed and what vet I am allowed to use. WHAT?!!?
Of course, we also ran into some people working with reacue I can only call hoarders. One lady had 14 dogs from the rescue and hadn't allowed any of them to be adopted for over 2 years! Another rescue wanted us to take a dog that had been brought back 3 times for biting the previous adopters...and we have kids!
So, after a few weeks of "rescue nut drama" we decided to contact a breeder. We now have 4 dogs. 2 female American Pit Bull Terriers, an American Bulldog and a Basset Hound. One female APBT we took in from a family member who couldn't afford her ongoing allergy medications and vet visits. The others we got from breeders because we just did not want to deal with the rescues again.
My dogs live a wonderful life with walks, medical care, quality kibble, obedience training, supervision, love and cuddles and free reign to shed all over the furniture. Too bad this home wasn't considered good enough by the "rescues".
Posted by: Melanie | August 08, 2011 at 12:28 PM
Thankfully our dog was a stray, because according to some of these rules we would have never been able to adopt from a rescue. We don't have a fenced yard, we rent our home (18 years), we aren't married (21 years)and we live on a busy road. Our dog does not go out of the house without one of us on the other end of the leash, he has had 2 years of obed/rally training, he has his CGC, he is chipped, he goes to day care twice a week, has health insurance and is loved unconditionally. We would do this for a rescue if we were given the chance...to bad we won't be....
Posted by: Shelley | August 08, 2011 at 02:11 PM
This is a brilliant post. Thank you. I've run into these sorts of requirements over and over again. I'm part of an unmarried couple. I live in an apartment. I don't even have a YARD much less a fenced in one. I was so very thankful that the rescue I adopted my wonderful dog from was able to realize that none of that meant a bad life for our dog. In fact, she gets two long walks, plus two short walks every day. Unless she goes to agility class, which we do twice a week.
These sorts of blanket policies are really just BAD, especially considering the dogs you see year after year in these rescues (which means more dogs cannot be pulled from shelters). I understand they want the best possible homes for their animals, but many times they go overboard, much to the detriment of their animals.
Posted by: Michelle | August 08, 2011 at 02:12 PM
Here is my response to your great post!
Posted by: Blondie | August 08, 2011 at 02:13 PM
Ooops. Forgot the response link:
http://talesfromclarkstreet.blogspot.com/2011/08/listen-up-animal-adoption-shelters.html
Posted by: Blondie | August 08, 2011 at 02:14 PM
Great post. Alexandria refused to adopt to my brother because in the past his dog was hit by a car. Disregard the fact that he petitioned the city to put in a light at that intersection, fenced his yard, and changed the front door. "They'd rather kill them themselves." I bought him a Lab from a breeder.
The shelter where I rescue, in response to the ASPCA challenge, held an adopt-a-thon this weekend for 33 hours. All adoptions were processed on the spot and people got to take their new charges home with them. It was name-your-own-price. As a result, 110 dogs and cats were adopted out. There are only 3 dogs left in the shelter! And all the pit bulls are gone. The last puppy was a pit and the family said no pits and then had a change of heart. Thought going through my mind, why didn't we do this before? Now it will be interesting to see how this effects our return rate.
Posted by: Dianne Rhodes | August 08, 2011 at 02:23 PM
GREAT POST! I had no fence except for the horses when I adopted my first two dogs. They were hand walked about 5 times a day. More healthy for me and them; after I put in a fence, I didn't walk so much and we all lost out. Now with my rescue, I am adjusting my bias toward outdoor dogs (I grew up in Minneapolis; we only had indoor dogs) and have adopted out at least two lately to mostly outdoor homes. I want very good homes, not perfect ones because, SURPRISE!, I am not perfect either.
Posted by: Roberta | August 08, 2011 at 02:42 PM
I have been doing rescue for dogs for 11 years - the rescue groups that i have worked with have had very stringent rules and include many that you mention - however, slowly, slowly, we have been coming to the realization that we must look at adoptions as "dog specific" and look for the "best fit" home available for that particular dog - it is a hard balancing act - the most important thing i think for rescue groups to do is to work on education and followup with the adopting family to bring together an environment of people, dogs and happenings which will focus on the well being of the creatures in that household - no, the environment doesn't have to be perfect, it does however, have to be filled with caring and responsible people - the essay has prompted me to think yet more seriously about how to replace "rules" with interactions and support between the rescue and the adopter that will focus on continuing good care for the animals - such a step does demand a certain trust in people - and as i hold in my arms a tiny emaciated Chihuahua with teeth so rotted that to eat is difficult for her, a leg badly injured and how painful i can't tell, i wonder how i can summon up that trust for the human community - i see your point and i do want the animal kill rate to fall to "0", but i can tell you, it is plain difficult to trust my fellow man - sadly my little Heather was one of that 4% of cruelly treated animals - so while rescues need to be introspective, let us suggest some helpful guidelines which will support them to look for "good" homes and not perfect ones, and thus help to further reduce the animal kill rate in this country......elaine
Posted by: elaine price | August 08, 2011 at 03:58 PM
It's frustrating to see rescue groups deny suitable adopters based on them living in an apartment building. I adopted my dog from a rescue organization and I eventually fostered with them. I was offended to later hear one of the other fosters tell me (to my face) that they would never adopt out to me or anyone else who had an apartment because they felt it was unfair to the dog. I work from home, and my dog gets more than the requisite three walks a day (including one minimum three mile walk each day-rain or shine). I believe that adopting out to suitable adopters who live in apartments/condos is actually better than renting out to someone who has a yard because the owner of the yard may just leave their dog in the yard unsupervised, while an apartment/condo dweller is forced to take their dog out.
And I think it's crap about not adopting out to unmarried couples. Married couples don't get divorced? I heard from many applicants who were applying to adopt because they had a pet previously but lost it to their ex in the divorce proceedings.
The goal should be finding suitable, great adopters, not scrutinizing their lifestyle to the point of finding any fault. It not only prolongs the animal from finding a forever home but also turns people off from the adoption option, particularly when pet shops and backyard breeders do not ask any questions and sometimes charge similar prices to the adoption agencies. :(
Posted by: Scarlet | August 08, 2011 at 06:22 PM
My wife and I rent. We have two males. And we have no fence. And I guarantee you our dogs receive above-average care. And I bet I walk them 4 miles a day, which keeps me looking hot.
Adopters should have to pass a sniff test though. Last month, two volunteers from the shelter where I volunteer did a home check for a potential adopter. The home was not ideal, but might have passed. Had the guy not told us that his last dog was a pit who kept jumping over the fence. So he put the dog on a chain outside. Then the dog then jumped over the fence while on the chain and hung himself. And the guy told us this completely nonchalantly as if there was nothing he could have done about it. He was declined.
Posted by: Joel | August 08, 2011 at 06:55 PM
Brent, as usual, I am bowing down to you and muttering "I'm not worthy"...
This is an excellent post and one that needs to be shared far and wide. It's time that everyone who is concerned about animals languishing in shelters start working together to find homes for the pets. Restrictive adoption contracts and clauses about needed fenced yards and no kids and married couples only,etc etc are not helping. I understand the reasoning, but, as you said, it doesn't stop families from getting a pet, it stops them from adopting the pets that you have available.
Here's my take on it, although it's no where as nice as yours!! http://forums.petdocsoncall.com/entry.php?175-Do-Some-Rescues-and-Shelter-Actually-Keep-Pets-from-Being-Saved
Posted by: PetDocsOnCall09 | August 08, 2011 at 07:10 PM
Thank you for writing this. As a mom to a 7 month old Pitty pup, I wish I had read this when we were trying to adopt. 3 months of petfinder obsession, many, many, many applications and tears, but we were finally able to write down what ever magic phrases were needed to get through the gatekeepers and bring home the love of my life.
Posted by: Lorraine | August 08, 2011 at 11:00 PM
Some of my favorite excuses to not adopt:
A Shih Tzu rescue that won't adopt to homes with cats with claws because Shih Tzu's have buggy eyes.
A rescue that doesn't adopt to homes where the public can access the front door. (no mail or deliveries then?)
A rescue that doesn't adopt to homes with smokers or has visitors that smoke.
A rescue that insists all their adopters feed their dogs a natural food that only the rescue sells.
A rescue that wanted to put an adopter on the "Do Not Adopt" list because the person was TOO enthusiastic - calling every couple of days to see if a dog was available.
I collect and save these in a file, then re-read them and laugh and cry at the same time.
Posted by: Kathy Pobloskie | August 09, 2011 at 07:32 AM
Kathy...those are priceless and I bet there are a lot more like those out there!
Posted by: PetDocsOnCall09 | August 09, 2011 at 08:13 AM
BEWARE of this rescue group!!! They refuse efforts to reunite animals with their true owners Word to the wise: Steer clear of this group and if you've ever had any bad experiences with them I would love to hear about it. I'd like to shut them down and out of business!! Shame on each and every one of these "ladies"!!! http://www.petfinder.com/shelters/SC256.html
KitNKats Rescue
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But the animals who had been waiting longer for their beloved people to accompany them across the Bridge knew what was happening and they began to gather at the pathway leading to the Bridge.
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Marsha Eileen Colina They REFUSED to allow me to see an animal in their "rescue" that I have good reason to believe is mine. ARGGGGGGGG!!!!!!
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Marsha Eileen Colina Will be calling Petsmart headquarters today about them!
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copied from my facebook post...just because they use the name "rescue" does NOT mean they are the standard setters for animal concerns. They displayed these animals in cages(and very small carriers)at Petsmart on a very hot day from 11AM-430/500PM with no water available or even offered. Who's the real problem here? Clearly sometimes it's the "rescuers" themselves!
Posted by: Marsha Colina | August 09, 2011 at 09:34 AM
meanwhile...this animal(which I feel there is a good likelihood is my lost pet) is still pictured on their petfinder page. There's profit in rescues so why reunite? Sickened and heartbroken!!!!!
Posted by: Marsha Colina | August 09, 2011 at 09:37 AM
Marsha raises another great point (post the link!)...I know rescue folks that will do nothing to find owners of lost pets if the pet is highly adoptable. Better not loose your bull terrier or anything teacup! And better get tags on your pet too as anything lost without a collar is automatically assumed to be DUMPED by many...
Posted by: PAMM - People Against Misguided Morons | August 09, 2011 at 11:22 AM
I totally agree with all the comments. The fence requirement really is a pet peeve of mine. First of all dogs need to be walked a few times per day. They need that stimulation. A tired dog is a good dog. Far too many dogs never get walked because their owners send them outside to their fenced in yard. I understand that sometimes that is necessary, but I still think it is unfair for rescue groups to make a fence a requirement. There are a lot of responsible pet owners who love walking their dogs. I imagine that the rescue groups are concerned that the owner will simply put the dog on a tie out and leave them there for hours at a time if they don't have a fence. Yes that is not acceptable. I really hope we can change the thinking of pet rescue groups. There are a lot of people without fences who would be a great pet owner.
Christine Evans
www.welovepetstraining.com
Offering dog training, pet sitting and dog walking in the Kansas City area.
Posted by: Christine Bullington-Evans | August 09, 2011 at 11:57 AM
This made me smile.
From the Newseum's website:
Gerald R. Ford's photographer, David Hume Kennerly, was looking for a golden retriever for his boss in 1974 but didn't want to reveal who the owner would be. "Do they own or rent?" the breeder asked. "I guess you could say they live in public housing," Kennerly deadpanned. Ford named the dog Liberty.
Posted by: Dianne Rhodes | August 09, 2011 at 02:41 PM
Thanks to everyone for the stories and examples...many of which I've not heard before. I hope that there is growing awareness of these restrictions so we can begin reversing these restrictions.
Dianne -- love the "public housing" comment. Funny.
Alana -- it's funny that you bring up that you quit fostering because of this. We essentially quit fostering for a rescue group because they were turning away so many applications and causing us to foster the same dog for 6-10 months without us even knowing of any of the apps (one dog, which we ended up keeping, had apparently 50 apps turned down and we were unaware she ever had any). Because every foster was becoming a long-term foster, we just quit doing it with them.
Posted by: Brent | August 09, 2011 at 05:01 PM
My husband and I wanted to adopt another indoor kitty to join our existing two and our two dogs. I was surprised when my local shelter told me because I already have four pets in the city limits they legally could not adopt another one to me per city regulations. Of course, we can just go to another agency that does not know how many pets we have.
I'm not blaming my local shelter. It's a city issue. But what I couldn't understand is that our kitties are indoor-only. How in the heck does that impact anyone else in the city? We are financially able to care for the pets we have, so it seems like a goofy rule.
Posted by: Jennifer Brighton | August 09, 2011 at 06:19 PM
The rescue group I work with is a perfect example of this. Once, a very nice family came in looking for a dog. I greeted and spoke to them, and they owned a female Golden Retriever with whom they did RallyO and agility with and were looking for another female dog.
They were denied on the spot because their dog was intact, and the adoption counselor told them to their face that they "were the reason that we have to do this".
And a few years ago a family friend tried to adopt from a pug rescue but were denied because they did not have a fenced yard. Instead, they got a puppy from a newspaper ad. When I asked them about it, they told me that the breeder did not let them see the mother and the puppies were shown in a "greeting room". Their dog died of cancer at three.
Posted by: Jackie | August 09, 2011 at 06:48 PM
Jackie -- sorry to hear about your friend's pug. I hate breeders like that that clearly are no breeding for the health of the animals. A fencing requirement for a Pug?
Jennifer -- I always struggle with adopting a dog to someone that is technically "illegal". I would have with an indoor cat, but aren't arbitrary pet limits ridiculous?
Posted by: Brent | August 09, 2011 at 07:04 PM