This is going to be a little out of character today for me. I'm going to provide some constructive criticism of a group of people that I think do some of the finest, and most noble work you can do. But I feel like I need to say something, because they're making it harder than they should be.
Animal Shelters and rescues do a lot of great work. It is VERY difficult to see so many animals that need homes, and you can't find homes for them. I can't even imagine having to, sometimes daily, make decisions on which dogs are no longer "adoptable" and having to euthenize them to create space for more animals. I also know how hard it is to bring a dog into your life, or your shelter, and then see the animal leave to a home. I know how easily and quickly you can get attached to animals.
However, there was a letter to the editor in yesterday's KC Star that struck a cord with me. The woman who wrote in the letter was denied a cat adoption because the shelter was concerned about her already having 2 outside cats and 3 outside dogs (apparently there are no pet limits in rural Wellsville). She told the Humane Society that she was looking for an indoor cat, and yet they still declined her application.
From what the woman says, it sounds like she is a solid pet owner, and would take good care of the cat. I can see from the Humane Society's standpoint that the home may not fit the "ideal" home (most Humane Societies and Shelters prefer animals kept indoors).
I also know from working with our rescue group, that we work really hard to find good homes for owners. Given that a large number of our dogs are bully breeds, the last thing we can afford to do is have one of our dogs end up on the news somewhere because we place it with an irresponsible owner.
But sometimes I think the rescue community makes it too hard for people to adopt animals. There are slow response times, and turned down applications because the home isn't "ideal". Yet the reality is, that if the dog doesn't go to that home, a) another dog will have to be put down because there isn't room at the shelter/rescue and b) the person will find a dog somewhere else, maybe bought from a Back Yard Breeder or pet store that gets puppy-mill dogs.
I know that it's a tough gig. Trust me, I know. But sometimes people need to realize that in many cases, less than "ideal" is still perfectly fine. There are many instances where outside dogs are just fine (we had an outside "farm dog" for years that slept in our garage and was scared to even be inside and she had a wonderful life). Few bully rescues will allow same gender placements, and yet, I've had 2 females in my household for 8 months because of a long-term foster, and have had a third there this week, and it's almost never a problem. While opposite sex placement is generally the best idea, if you have two dogs with complementing temperaments it can work just fine. Even opposite gender placements don't work out based on gender alone.
I'm just saying that maybe they could make it easier on themselves by not turning down every non-ideal application. There are a lot of ways for animals to have good homes, and maybe by realizing that "less-than-perfect" is still better than euthenasia we can help solve a bit of our problem.

You've successfully navigated both sides of the issue, so there's not much to comment on.
I'd only add that each shelter/rescue has different adoption rules, which are often the result of past experiences. People usually have the option of trying elsewhere.
By the same token, shelter workers are not cat or dog experts...in any way. (Actual experts are...well...experts. And only a few, if any, of these experts work at animal shelters. For the most part, they gained this expertise outside their duties as shelter workers.)
As such, a tragic number of myths are perpetuated through individual shelter workers, and the policies they have enacted. (That could be anything from breed-specific policies, to minimum adoption standards, or theories about behaviour, such as the 'same sex' policies at some rescues.)
I know of one man who can't adopt from any of his preferred breed's rescue groups because his current dog is an intact male. He's looking for another male, but all the rescues in his area have policies of not adopting out to homes with intact dogs.
Now, I don't know this guy, so I'm not too broken up that he might not get a dog. But I will say this: most of the time I was successfully re-training aggressive dogs for shelters and rescues, I didn't have a fenced property. So while the dogs were actually dangerous and poorly-trained, it was fine for them to be in my unfenced yard. But after I re-trained the dogs, and made them safe and reliable, they could only be adopted out to homes with fully-fenced properties. It's ironic.
Posted by: Marjorie | April 06, 2007 at 07:59 PM
Good post.
There is no 'perfect' home, something a few of the rescues I know realize. There will never be a perfect home.
I have three males at present. I had two in the recent past, one large, one small. I have never owned a female, just by chance. Since my dogs are neutered, they get along beautifully.
If someone has an intact male and takes in a neutered male, it usually goes smoothly. Gee, when I was a kid, nobody neutered the males, they only spayed the females. While it's true that multiple dog households were rare back then, there were no more fights on the street than there are now, which by the way is very few.
The SPCA that I know well doesn't insist on a fenced yard. They do physical property checks though. When I adopted my big guy, now gone, I told them honestly that my yard was not really a 'dog yard' as I am a keen gardener. I had a partial, inadequate chain fence that would not hold any dog determined to escape.
I told them I walk my dogs daily for at least an hour in the morning, usually an hour at night, unless it's pouring rain. This was the truth, they believed me, and placed my beloved Monty with me.
If anything, a fence can lead to laziness and problem barking. You just turf the dog into the yard, let him back in the house, etc. A lack of a fence can actually benefit the dog, if the owner cares.
That's really the nut of it, caring about the dog you adopt. If you do, it will work out - they are pretty darned adaptable after all.
Posted by: Caveat | April 06, 2007 at 08:32 PM
Oh, my goodness, Caveat... :-)
I say that all the time! Does a fenced yard equal a better home? My position is that it doesn't, for more reasons than just the fact that I, too, have never had a property enclosed with anything resembling a "dog proof" fence.
I caution that many people seem to think, because the fence is sturdy, they can just dump the dog in the yard, and leave it there for any amount of time, unsupervised.
Conversely, if you don't have a well-fenced yard, you physically have to join your dog in the yard, to supervise it. Dogs generally prefer being outdoors WITH their owners. Plus, supervised dogs get into significantly less trouble than their unsupervised counterparts.
I'm not saying this is written in stone. I'm just agreeing that good dog owners, for the most part, do what's best for their dogs, in their individual circumstances; whereas bad dog owners will always do what's most convenient for themselves.
Few dog care measures are entirely good or bad. (A leash can be a helpful tool, or the implement of torture.)
Posted by: Marjorie | April 07, 2007 at 07:49 AM
Not as dumb as I look :}
A well exercised, well socialized dog is a happy dog. Happy dogs are a pleasure to live with.
The get desensitized, ie, socialized, by being exposed to things on outings such as traffic, other dogs, people, etc - not by sitting alone in a fenced yard.
A dog can be neglected and unloved or cared about regardless of the physical property, financial means or social standing of the owner. This is proven time and time again.
Look at the truckers who travel with their little dogs, two happy chums on the road together. No fence there.
Posted by: Caveat | April 07, 2007 at 08:32 AM